what to do when boredom kicks in a relationship?

If you think you are the only one whose relationship is boring, think again & look around. Most of the relationships have become monotonous & most of then are failing & having cracks because they lack “spark” or “chemistry”. That spark & chemistry you had initial years or months in current times seems to vanish & you are left wondering what the hell happened & do everything to bring that spark back, sometimes it works & sometimes not.

Lets look some aspects here, every relationship has a phase of honeymoon period & then it fades away with time. We has humans find it interesting,  mysterious & our curiosity increases to know everything about the new person. Once we have started getting to know the person & we don’t find anything anymore that interesting, it gets a bit predictable & slowly it boredom creeps in.

Now its obvious you cant keep acting mysterious & doing things to grab other persons attention as you could either become an attention seeking, clingy person or mysterious, & difficult to get along.  So what do you do to add the lost spark in a relationship.

There is a question you could ponder on till part 2 of this blog comes in

what was the spark in your relationship? it could be talks, activities, intimacy and/or something else. it could be one or combination of all.

Till then Love J