To women, for women, from a woman.

is it time to love yourself, define your boundaries & know what exactly you desire?

I am not going to say what you deserve, deserve is a limitation based on what we are made to believe on having or not in life. I also wouldnt even say open your wings & fly high, as this again comes with what you believe on how much you can fly high.

I am here to bring you clarity on what you desire in a relationship which first begins with self. Once the mud is clear, there is a clarity on what kind of relationship brings joy to you & what do you exactly desire.

the gap from where you are & where you desire to be is what needs to be worked out. I learnt this with time. I believed that i deserved a happy relationship & i had always been asking & looking for it in every man i met and with every other relationship it was either toxic, unfulfilling, made me feel less than the other person, disturbing & some loveless.

When i began to work on my belief patterns, traumas & everything i had defined what i am & what a relationship should be like, things started to change. Its been easy to define my boundaries, put across my feelings in a more assertive way, learning to let go & embrace the change with resistance & most importantly accepting myself wholeheartedly.

My message to you is, begin to love yourself 1st, clear your blocks, define & yet be flexible with how things are shaping out & stop being harsh on yourself. Self love isn’t all about shopping, spa & merry time, its also about being kind, compassionate & being willing to change when its required to change with grace.

Love J

From 1st of February “conscious women” is starting, its an online program were we get together to embrace ourselves with grace. For details you can drop in a mail jaanvi.tourani@gmail.com